Option 1: names in a hat
Write each name on paper, fold it and draw. If someone pulls their own name, everyone puts theirs back and draws again. It works when everyone is in the same room.
Option 2: a free online drawer
The free Secret Santa name drawer makes a random draw in your browser where nobody gets themselves, and you can block couples or roommates from drawing each other. Nothing is uploaded or emailed.
Sharing results privately
The organizer sends each person only their own match by text or message. If the organizer is also playing, ask a non-player to run it, or let each person draw in person.
Set the rules up front
- A price limit everyone can afford (see how much to spend on Secret Santa).
- The exchange date and where gifts go.
- A wish list or a few likes and dislikes for each person.