How to Make a Wedding Guest List and Track RSVPs

Build a wedding guest list by household, split A and B lists, track save-the-dates, RSVPs, meal choices, tables and thank-you notes.

The guest list drives your budget, venue size and catering count, so it pays to keep it in one place from the first draft to the last thank-you note.

1. List by household

One row per household with names, address and the number invited. It makes addressing invitations and counting easier.

2. Split A and B lists

Your A list is everyone you must invite; the B list is who you would add if space and budget allow.

3. Track each step

Save-the-date sent, invitation sent, RSVP received, number attending and declined.

4. Collect meals and dietary notes

Record meal choices and allergies with the RSVP, then send totals to your caterer.

5. Plan tables

Assign guests to tables and compare seats used with each table's capacity.

6. Log gifts and thank-yous

Note each gift as it arrives and tick off thank-you notes as you send them.

Checklist

Free download: Wedding RSVP Tally Sheet, a printable sheet to tally RSVPs and meal counts. Free on Payhip.
Spreadsheet: the Wedding Guest List & RSVP Tracker ($7, Excel or Google Sheets) covers up to 400 households with RSVP and meal tracking, a check that flags counts that don't add up, a summary, table seating and thank-you tracking. Made with AI assistance.

Questions

How do I count wedding guests?

Track the number invited and number attending per household, then total them.

When should RSVPs be due?

Many couples set the deadline a few weeks before the wedding so the caterer and seating can be finalized; check your vendors' deadlines.